Adult ADHD and the hard part of getting started

You know what you need to do. You may even have it on a list. But opening the email, starting the laundry, or finding the first step can still feel like more work than the task itself.

Make the first step visible

Pick one task that’s been sitting on your list. Replace the broad instruction with something you can see yourself do. “Deal with paperwork” could become “put the envelopes on the table.” Once you’ve started, decide whether to take another step or come back later.

Build around your real day

A reminder is easier to act on when it lands at a time you can do something about it. You might set out what you need the night before or attach one small task to an existing routine. If a strategy keeps falling apart, look at where it asks for more time, energy, or decisions than you have in that moment.

Support from Juniper Path Counseling

Britta Hadden, LCSW, offers adult ADHD therapy for adults in Rifle and online across Colorado. If you’d like to talk about what’s happening in your life, book through Headway for insurance or private pay.

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